
to — forms of dominance, submission, discipline, punishment, bondage, sexual role-playing, sexual fetishism,
and sadomasochism, as well as the full spectrum of mainstream personal and sexual interactions. Keep in mind
that because BDSM is an eXchange of trust, it should only occur between committed couples. And before
engaging in any sexual play, you should always establish a safe word. The purpose for this word is a signal to
you that you’re lover is uncomfortable or wants to stop immediately. The safe word should be something that
doesn’t come up in regular conversation. It should not be a name, or anything that you or your lover might
remember. As always when playing any sexual games, use common sense and discretion! Click for The
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- Bondage Bar: bondage bars are rigid bars with adjustable loops for the wrists and ankles that allow to
limited movement to the bindee. Bondage bars can be used for either extremity or both at the same.
When used to bind the wrists and ankles the sub or bindee is bent over.
- Bondage Sheets: bondage sheets are fitted sheets with cuffs built in. These “toys” slip right onto your
mattress like a traditional sheet and are usually made of soft materials. Bondage sheets are great for light
bondage and are easy to use and to tuck away out of sight when you’re not using it.
- Bondage Tape or Sex Tape: bondage tape is an adult product that can be used to bind, restrain or to
cover up naughty bits. Pleasure tape is usually easy to put on and more importantly easy to remove and
shouldn’t hurt or pull the skin.
- Cuffs: cuffs are bondage items that wrap around the wrists or ankles. While similar in use to handcuffs,
cuffs are usually soft and flexible and designed to be more comfortable than traditional handcuffs and
often utilize Velcro.
- Ropes: ropes are one of the most basic bondage toys, Adam and Eve offers soft, pliable ropes that are
gentle to the skin. Ropes can be used to bind or restrain any body part and are prefect playful bondage.
- Straps: straps are another bondage toy that allows you to restrain different parts of the body, including
wrists, ankles, arms and thighs. Straps come in variety of lengths and also use Velcro or similar material.
- Sex Slings and Harnesses: sex slings are a series of connected straps that are worn by one partner
and offer support or aid in certain positions. These can be simple slings that wrap behind the wearer’s
neck and attach to their ankles allowing the user to pull their legs farther back to achieve deeper
penetration or harnesses that are worn by one partner but have straps the other partner can slide their
arms or legs in to. Harnesses open up a new world of positions where one partner is off the suspended
from the other.
- Sex Swings: sex swings are large “sex toys” that can be suspended from the ceiling or a special stand
that help you achieve advanced sex positions. Read more about sex swings or shop for sex swings.
- Ties: bondage ties are different from ropes in that they are made from different materials and often much
thinner than rope. Ties can be used in the same manner as ropes allowing you to bind the hands and feet
to each other or to a piece of furniture.
- Tethers: tethers are straps that usually used with bondage cuffs. Tethers are attached to wrist or ankle
cuffs and then attached to a piece of furniture. Tethers are easier to use than rope since they have clips
that allow for easier attachment.
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